No one can deny the vital and fundamental role of women in raising children as a natural and principal responsibility. In many cultures, mother is a symbol of sacrifice and selflessness because of their unconditioned and inexhaustible love to their children. It is assumed that women are better nurturer than men are. However, on balance, I hold the view that both men and women are integral contribution of the children’ growth for the following reason.
In the first place, it goes without saying that parents are source of children support and guidance. If only a mother works on herself to rear children, is it true that her infant will develop in their full wing? She may be a very good mother who gives conscientious care as well as dedicated love to their children. Nevertheless, it will be better for the children who also deserve a father’s nourishment. As their children grow, fathers take on added roles of guiding their children's intellectual and social development. Even when a father is 'just playing' with his children, he is nurturing their development. For example, in one study, baby boys whose fathers engaged in physically playful, affectionate and stimulating play during infancy were more popular later as school children. Thus, both a mother and a father are important to an infant's development in special ways and their roles complement each other.
In the second place, mothers will benefit from fathers’ support. If a mother can count on her children' father to help with keeping the house clean and in good repair, caring for the children, paying the bills, and planning for the future, she probably will be a happier, more effective parent. The support a mother receives from her child's father can even help her be more competent and sensitive when feeding her baby.
Finally, today, living-cost climbs up day-by-day, so most families rely upon the incomes of both mothers and fathers. However, fathers still provide the lion's share of income. Fathers are either the sole earners or the main earners in two-thirds of two-parent households. Moreover, fathers' earnings are uniquely linked to many positive results for children, even when mothers' earnings are taken into consideration.
All things considered, I think a child who has both a mother and a father benefits from an increased richness of care. Parents, regardless of fathers or mothers, are the source of support for their children’ perfect growth.
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Thứ Sáu, 19 tháng 3, 2010
Thứ Năm, 18 tháng 3, 2010
Topic 2 _ THU ĐOÀN
The controversial topic about the role of mothers and fathers in raising children has been attracting public attention. While some people insist that men cannot make parents as well as women, others stand in stark contrast to them. From the point of view on eastern nations and differences in parenting, I fervently support the first opinion.
To begin with, characteristics of Eastern societies exert important influences on opinion about the role of mothers in bringing up children. First, traditional impressions indicate that women play a central role in taking care of children, as well as educating them. These opinions are generally accepted in these countries nowadays because not only Eastern people respect tradition, but also men are still in main earning money commitment. Second, they often think that infants and toddlers are so vulnerable that they need particular protection from parents. During childhood, they cannot but ask parents’ permission for almost everything. Despite of being more mature, they often have to follow counsels of their fussy parents. This educational way obviously makes them lack self-reliance. It explains the reason why children in these countries eventually need a person with more constant and tender loving care that seems to be heavily involved in mothers.
Moreover, there are wide differences in the way fathers and mothers raise their children. Men tend to be too permissive, but in some cases, too strict. For instance, they frequently allow children do everything they want without considering what might happen to them. They sometimes discipline children for their mistakes, but these punishments are always stricter than mothers’ are. Additionally, earning money has absorbed fathers for most of the time, so they spend little time taking care of children. That might widen the gap between father and child, and make children disobey fathers’ advices. By contrast, mothers usually display affectionate behavior, as well as use love to discipline their children. They take hours to play with the child, care for them when sick, and so on. They are attentive to what the child do, and think. These activities make children feel themselves being in care and love.
To conclude, in most of the countries, mothers are better at raising children than fathers. Therefore, all of us should have a more respectful view on them even they are only housewives, especially in male chauvinism countries.
To begin with, characteristics of Eastern societies exert important influences on opinion about the role of mothers in bringing up children. First, traditional impressions indicate that women play a central role in taking care of children, as well as educating them. These opinions are generally accepted in these countries nowadays because not only Eastern people respect tradition, but also men are still in main earning money commitment. Second, they often think that infants and toddlers are so vulnerable that they need particular protection from parents. During childhood, they cannot but ask parents’ permission for almost everything. Despite of being more mature, they often have to follow counsels of their fussy parents. This educational way obviously makes them lack self-reliance. It explains the reason why children in these countries eventually need a person with more constant and tender loving care that seems to be heavily involved in mothers.
Moreover, there are wide differences in the way fathers and mothers raise their children. Men tend to be too permissive, but in some cases, too strict. For instance, they frequently allow children do everything they want without considering what might happen to them. They sometimes discipline children for their mistakes, but these punishments are always stricter than mothers’ are. Additionally, earning money has absorbed fathers for most of the time, so they spend little time taking care of children. That might widen the gap between father and child, and make children disobey fathers’ advices. By contrast, mothers usually display affectionate behavior, as well as use love to discipline their children. They take hours to play with the child, care for them when sick, and so on. They are attentive to what the child do, and think. These activities make children feel themselves being in care and love.
To conclude, in most of the countries, mothers are better at raising children than fathers. Therefore, all of us should have a more respectful view on them even they are only housewives, especially in male chauvinism countries.
Thứ Ba, 16 tháng 3, 2010
bài của mình -shigawa
"i'm not sure about this essay, so, I give some my opinion based on the issue rasing the child"
In recent years, the young people, espcially the minor children, had the unhealthy thinking, so the news about suicide, sexual abuse, abortion appear so much that we have to think for the younger generation’s future.
I’m thinking about the psychological aspects of Asian, who are easily influenced by their parents, and that things will lead to the information of child’s personality when it contacts to social.
I think the role of man and woman in rasing the child are equal.
The Eastern conception, character of the woman is considered such as indulgent, profound, therefore a child usually askes the mother when it should eat or drink something. Mother can share the joy and sorrow and support them to overcome difficulties.
The memories of human, the mother’s emotional depth is heaviest, because it affects the very large to the feelings of children when they behave with the people around them.
The man, I believe that the children’s growing up is due to the strict teaching of father, who always is it’s image. The man with strong character, can solve these important issues in his family, so the child can be successful if they were his father’s teaching in all fields. The child may be based on his mother’s care, but will ask his father if they have to answer to the question “right or wrong”.
I can’t affirm that “ man or woman, who is more important than?”, but the man is well built based on family happiness. A family, which has parents harmony, there is love and morality are two important things to parenting a human.
In recent years, the young people, espcially the minor children, had the unhealthy thinking, so the news about suicide, sexual abuse, abortion appear so much that we have to think for the younger generation’s future.
I’m thinking about the psychological aspects of Asian, who are easily influenced by their parents, and that things will lead to the information of child’s personality when it contacts to social.
I think the role of man and woman in rasing the child are equal.
The Eastern conception, character of the woman is considered such as indulgent, profound, therefore a child usually askes the mother when it should eat or drink something. Mother can share the joy and sorrow and support them to overcome difficulties.
The memories of human, the mother’s emotional depth is heaviest, because it affects the very large to the feelings of children when they behave with the people around them.
The man, I believe that the children’s growing up is due to the strict teaching of father, who always is it’s image. The man with strong character, can solve these important issues in his family, so the child can be successful if they were his father’s teaching in all fields. The child may be based on his mother’s care, but will ask his father if they have to answer to the question “right or wrong”.
I can’t affirm that “ man or woman, who is more important than?”, but the man is well built based on family happiness. A family, which has parents harmony, there is love and morality are two important things to parenting a human.
Chủ Nhật, 14 tháng 3, 2010
Nguyễn Xuân Tuyển, KT-KT faculty, Banking Academy
I send to everyone my essay. I hope that you can correct for me asap. Thanks a lot!
My essay:
Due to adopting East traditional views of a man earning, a woman doing homemaker and children rearing, so many people think that raising children is only women’s. Yet that is a full misconception, especially in the modern society nowadays.
First of all, the main argument in favor of my view is that a man and a woman have the same role in raising children, and a toddler is not able to grow up with lacking any the mother’s or father’s guides. It should consider the difference of character between two genders: males are usually to like be adventure, resilient, aggressive and easy to resort to violence in attempting to solve the problems, whereas females are often patient, diligent, obedient, and worried and inferiority complex… From that features, these two natures will supplement each other in child rearing. A child need be adopted the father’s braveness, maturity and the mother’s grace, care, so both are very important for a baby in childhood as well as in adulthood later.
The second, men are less to ask their children for emotional questions such as “Do you feel cold? Would do you like a drink? Like women’ questions. In stead of that they can become old toddlers to play with their children as carriers, a man is always ready to respond his children’ queries. By the way, a child will learn many useful things from the father and develop the responsibility it takes to be a good man or woman.
The third, indeed, if a little boy is less gotten in touch with the same sexier, he often tends to become womanlike. He will lack of a man’s characters and thereafter when he marries, the happiness will be fragile because of easy being bullied in day to day his life.
To sum up, while many people support for a women’s greater role in child rearing in most societies, let us not forget that men’s role is very important too. What if does a child lack of the father’s nurtures? He or she will grow up emotionally immature or unformed.
My essay:
Due to adopting East traditional views of a man earning, a woman doing homemaker and children rearing, so many people think that raising children is only women’s. Yet that is a full misconception, especially in the modern society nowadays.
First of all, the main argument in favor of my view is that a man and a woman have the same role in raising children, and a toddler is not able to grow up with lacking any the mother’s or father’s guides. It should consider the difference of character between two genders: males are usually to like be adventure, resilient, aggressive and easy to resort to violence in attempting to solve the problems, whereas females are often patient, diligent, obedient, and worried and inferiority complex… From that features, these two natures will supplement each other in child rearing. A child need be adopted the father’s braveness, maturity and the mother’s grace, care, so both are very important for a baby in childhood as well as in adulthood later.
The second, men are less to ask their children for emotional questions such as “Do you feel cold? Would do you like a drink? Like women’ questions. In stead of that they can become old toddlers to play with their children as carriers, a man is always ready to respond his children’ queries. By the way, a child will learn many useful things from the father and develop the responsibility it takes to be a good man or woman.
The third, indeed, if a little boy is less gotten in touch with the same sexier, he often tends to become womanlike. He will lack of a man’s characters and thereafter when he marries, the happiness will be fragile because of easy being bullied in day to day his life.
To sum up, while many people support for a women’s greater role in child rearing in most societies, let us not forget that men’s role is very important too. What if does a child lack of the father’s nurtures? He or she will grow up emotionally immature or unformed.
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